Believing that they are doing the right thing, the majority of parents help their children with their homework assignments and offer support to review and prepare for exams.
Of course, at an early primary level, it is essential for parents to guide their children. They need to know basic things before attending school.
However, the parental omnipresence can quickly become a burden for the young child...
Full of anxiety and rarely effective, the help of mommy and daddy cannot hinder the work of the student who needs to learn to become more independent as he grows.
Nevertheless, many British parents no longer trust traditional school teachers. They think they know best and their child will respond to them more effectively. This point of view is highly mistaken.
Parents have begun to feel this way due to the overcrowded classes in primary and secondary school. In this environment, school teachers cannot give each student the help it deserves and needs...
The risk of all of this?
Decreasing grades and frustration that could eventually lead to dropping out school which causes many issues such as social exclusion.
Find out how supplemental instruction from private tutors can help with student success!
Homework Help: Until What Age Should Parents Provide Assistance?
Whether your child is primary, secondary or even college student it is normal for parents to want to assist their children with their schooling.
In general, everything starts at the beginning of primary school: thinking about entering a school for "big kids" in the future can easily stress students, especially knowing that homework will become more complex and difficult!
Therefore, it is of the utmost importance to make the student feel that he is not alone.
This is a crucial period for the student's future learning. The goal is to make studying fun and engaging and for that, there is no one better suited than the child's own Mum and Dad!
If you have the time and are available, help your little one with preparing for exams, reviewing homework and oral presentations.
In fact, the help a loving parent provides acts as a gateway to the future autonomy of the young pupil!
However, during the end of Key Stage 2 in year 6, the student should already know how to do his own homework, because you have already helped him in the previous three years of Key Stage 2 and all of Key Stage 1.
Your little Einstein is now ready to work on his own. Don't get too emotional when you cut the cord!
Here are some rules to remember to provide effective support:
- Understand and know in which environment your child feels better in (in the evening, outside, with or without music and extrinsic distractions...),
- Encourage discussion and communication to enable the student to better understanding statements and questions on his own,
- Be honest and share your own personal experiences about what subjects you struggled with in the past. This will create a relaxed, stress-free environment,
- Adopt a positive attitude and never criticize his teachers or the UK Education System in front of him,
- Never and I mean NEVER do the homework for your child! (Don't ever forget this one.)
When the student takes the big step and enters secondary school, there will be a lot of changes and adaptations during which you will remain as a distant support system.
After that, it's his game and he'll get to learn to play quite rapidly!
Of course, this does not mean that you will no longer help to answer questions and guide your child, however, the student should now be at a phase where he is autonomous and able to do his homework completely independently. The pupil knows that before he leaves for school the next morning his homework should be finished.
If you feel that as a parent you were not present enough and failed in your academic advising, do not hesitate to give your child the help he needs throughout all of Key Stage 3 to ensure his academic success.
Check out what is waiting for you after school.
The pupil stills need to learn to work on things and come to conclusions on their own: mummy and daddy will not always be there holding your hand!
Find out why it is a good idea to secure academic support early in your child's academic career...
Parental Help Can Be Harmful to Children's Studies
Parental aid is good, but is it really that effective?
Many educational specialists argue that parents are not correctly equipped to understand the homework that the Education System provides for their children.
Well, the answer is quite simple: The Times They Are a-Changin' (thanks Bob Dylan!) School programs, curriculums and generations change. Parents did not learn things in the same way their children are now learning.
Based on a recent study conducted, 5 out of 6 parents feel unequipped to help their children with homework in certain subjects, especially in mathematics with 37% of parents finding this subject to be the most difficult.
The study states that 83% of parents who have children aged 9-13 admitted to pollsters that they were unable to do the homework assignments of their preteen.
Justine Roberts of Mumsnet said something very interesting about mothers and fathers offering homework help in an article written by the Guardian:
"Can actually do more harm than good because you can confuse them by teaching them in a completely different way to the way their teachers teach them."
This "help" can actually hinder the student's progress and make him feel discouraged and confused. This is the last thing loving parents want!
These statistics are not to make parents feel bad but they are here to show that parental help brings down the children's school results, regardless of their social background, race, country or employment.
According to an article written by The Conversation, a parent who tries to help too much (a helicopter parent) can do more harm than good. The help is no longer seen as beneficial and this approach can result in anxiety, stress, procrastination, lack of resilience and control in the young schoolchild. Pretty much all the qualities you don't want your child to ever have!
The child becomes stressed and is overly concerned about pleasing the parent which results in anxiety if the results are not positive.
Here are some useful tips to avoid becoming a helicopter parent:
- Let your child review his homework with a classmate,
- Install learning applications or software to help your child work on his own,
- Call a private tutor to assist with study skills,
- Register your child to attend a tutoring centre during the summer or winter holidays,
- Review online thanks to academic resources at your child's disposal.
To not work under so much tension, a little independence goes a long way!
Educational support by means of a private and personal advisor makes it possible to erase the errors of the UK Education System.
Academic Studies: The Roles of Parents and Teachers are Mixed Up
Contrary to what parents may say and believe, today's parents are not equipped with the right knowledge and tools to properly help their children academically. They do not know how to engage their children and they are not as familiar with the school subjects as they should be. This is of major concern across the United Kingdom.
According to an article written by the BBC, parents in the UK are far less likely to spend more than an hour helping their children with homework in comparison to other countries.
Parents in the United Kingdom ranked far behind the 29 countries that were surveyed with only 11% of parents helping their child for an hour a day with their homework.
The little time they spend helping their child can be blamed on two factors:
- The inability to fully grasp and understand their child's homework assignments. This can result in frustrating parents who do prioritize helping the young pupil,
- An extremely busy and hectic schedule that leaves barely anytime for homework help.
What makes this all worse is that the 11% of parents who dedicate more than an hour, are often too intense and intervene way more than they should. These overbearing parents even question the UK Education System's curriculum and the schoolteachers.
With the imbalances of too little and too much attention, students in the UK are confused and ask themselves: should I listen to my teacher or my parents?
The answer is clear: teachers know best.
Schoolteachers have attended university and are trained to deal with your child's needs. They also can identify when a parent is overly concerned with their children's academic skills. An educated teacher knows that this is poison for the pupil's school career.
The debate about abolishing homework in the United Kingdom is very divided.
Many believe that the student should not have homework because he/she should have done all of their schoolwork during class time. While those on the other side of the debate strongly believe that homework demonstrates that child is learning and doing work.
If you are a parent who constantly questions the efficiency of the UK's education system or have a child who is on the brink of dropping out of school, the perfect solution is hiring a private tutor who will provide supplemental guidance and empower your child to succeed!
Punctual, engaging, qualified, pedagogical and serious, a personal tutor is trained to offer extra school support and help students in difficulty.
A private tutor's goal is to assist student learning so that the pupil can have a successful academic year!
School subjects on the agenda:
- English and Literature,
- Chemistry and Physics,
- French classes,
- Spanish classes etc.
The at-home private tutor is at your child's disposal to answer their questions and concerns and to provide the supervision and academic support that the young student needs, especially when preparing for that critical exam!
Hiring a Personal Tutor: What Benefits Are There For the Student and the Family?
During home tutoring classes, the private tutor will not only provide homework help but will also be able to pass on academic skills, tips and tricks to the struggling student. This becomes a wealth of knowledge!
Today, private academic mentoring is on the rise!
More than 40% of pupils in London have at one time sought the assistance of a personal tutor.
Private tuition school coaching is much more individualized than the traditional lessons taught in regular schools.
While there are not really any tax breaks or benefits for hiring a private teacher in the UK, many tutoring companies and agencies are providing a proportion of private classes to disadvantaged students for free. The state has also already started some non-profit school support organizations to make sure that all students regardless of social background receive the same opportunities.
Through regular monitoring and intensive learning, the student can quickly boost his academic average while learning to be more independent.
Through new educational techniques:
- An online tutoring course,
- Online exercises and tests through learning applications,
- Possibilities of distance learning via webcam and Skype,
- Methodology adapted to the level of the student,
- Revision techniques,
- Reviewing courses to overcome the student's academic difficulties,
- At-home tutoring sessions that meet the standards of the National Education System,
- Exam preparation thanks to academic support (A-Level exams, International Baccalaureate etc.)
- Personalized schedule adapted to the student's learning pace, etc.
The tutor will also act as an academic advisor who will guide your child to the appropriate training.
As a responsible parent, your role is to control, from a distance, the progress of your child without having to add any additional pressure that could cause the young pupil anxiety!
To practice the second language or to improve one's math skills, the student will no longer feel alone and will be able to benefit from a tailored, at-home study course prepared by a competent and scholarly tutor.
To avoid school-related stress and tension, private tutoring is the perfect remedy!
You can be sure that your child will avoid possible school failure due to dropouts and peer pressure since home lessons are often designed to boost motivation.
Homework will no longer be viewed as a burden but as a way to improve your child's academic studies!
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